Well put:
The blame for the Prop 8 failure does not automatically fall on the door step of ethnic groups the LGBT community feels should have stood with them as a show of reciprocation for their support of the Civil Rights movement of the 1960s. For one thing, that was four decades past. In the meantime, an awful lot of African, Asian, Central American, Native American, and every other ethnic demographic has been numbered in the LGBT community. And, those have received support from their own. But, their numbers are just as small as those in the LGBT Community. Face it, African Americans make up only 12% of the total population. Fewer than that 12% vote. And, we Africans in America lay pretty similarly across the social strata, from ultra conservative to revolutionary liberal, the same way as any ethnicity in this contemporary society. The reality, however, just like all the other ethnicities in America, we’re predominantly straight. Sure, there are black gays, black lesbians, black trannies, and brothers and sisters swinging both ways. But, the vast majority of us are still doing it straight in the missionary position, and loving it. Some of us support marriage being a right of any two consenting adults. The vast majority of us don’t really care one way or another. And, we too boast a faction who are vehemently against it for religious reasons. But, of course, don’t all the ethnicities?
What strikes me as presumptuous is that the LGBT community always wants to target African Americans for our insensitivity to their plight because many of us resent their comparing being gay to our being slaves. Well, we stand by the argument that they always had the option to pretend to be straight where it was convenient, with no consequences beyond a conflicted conscience. We, on the other hand, could not run from being black, no matter how hard we pretended to be white. And, we’re still paying for skin color today. We’re still penalyzed in many arenas, more actually than the LGBT community in America. That notwitstanding, we know and appreciate their stuggling through the torment and hostility from the ignorant who don’t understand. We know what the harm of the ignorant feels like and don’t wish that evil on anyone. We don’t feel a person should be castigated, abused, mistreated, or deprived of basic human and civil rights and liberties just because of his/her sexual orientation, skin color, religious creeds, or favorite teams preferences.
That notwithstand, for many non-occidental ethnicities, NOT JUST AFRICAN AMERICANS, marriage is more a GOD-ordained religious sacrement than a civil privilege afforded to any two people who wish to commit to the union, no matter how in love that couple might be. These are cultures that forbid the unions of certain heterosexual pairs in their churches, temples, tabernacles, and synagogues. So, try to appreciate why for them, gay marriage is out of the question. These groups, many of whom are not Black, Hispanic, Asian, or Middle Eastern, or any other group commonly accused of being insensitive homophobic anti-gay haters by the LGBT community, are always going to fight legislation of anything they perceive to be homosexual. These are the same true believing zealots camped out at women’s healthcare facilities with their home schooled kids, laden with posters of the sonograph of the thumb-sucking fetus sleeping in its mommy’s womb, screaming “It’s a baby, not a choice.” For the record, it was them who thwarted gay marriage on the 4th of November, and them who organized to campaign against gay marriage and any definition of gay civil union. These were basically white people.
No, the LGBT Community was out-manuevered by a better organized force of white religious fearmongers, many of whom did not even live in California. The LGBT community played a mediocre ground game, presuming to ride Prop 8 in on the campaign crest of the Democratic ticket party’s success, instead of getting out there and educating voters on what a civil union even is. The truth is there was never enough black support available in the whole state of California to turn the tide on this issue, not even if every African American registered to vote in California had cast a vote in favor of gay civil unions. The LGBT community, which is predominantly white, was going to need to have made a concerted effort to reach out to ALL the voters to very carefully and thoroughly deliberate those critical ballot issues impacting the gay community. And, alas, THEY dropped the ball on that, not the Blacks, and not the Hispanics.